I hate you. I really really REALLY do. How would you like it if I made up fucked up stuff about you and broadcast it all of the world and it made people fear and loathe you before they even know who you are? Really, you think that would be unjust bullshit? Well then STOP FUCKING DOING IT TO US. Don't know what I'm talking about? Here:
Criminal Minds: 2 episodes into the season and 2, not 1, but 2, bad guys who are "borderline." Never mind the fact that I didn't see anything that was really borderline about either of them. So what's your fucking problem? Do you just think that because Borderline is so stigmatised and so unknown that you can pick on us and say that we're crazy scary people who (and I *almost* quote) 'believe that all relationships revolve around us'? Seriously? So yeah, we do do that to some extent, but first of all so does everyone else, and second of all I've never met or heard of anyone who's borderline kidnapping and killing people because they think that those people are there just for them. For fuck's sake, it would have definitely made the news since we borderlines are the big bads of the mental health world. BOO!
So do I get to look forward to an entire season of this bullshit where every creep who is a murderer is talked about as borderline? Every single one? You know, if people who are borderline would be less scared to talk about it openly (and with bullshit like this who can blame them for not wanting to talk openly) we might actually be less stigmatised, but even without you moron writers putting this bullshit into your show we all ready have to deal with therapists who refuse to work with us, people who don't know how to treat us, and people who are scared or freak out when they find out we have a "personality disorder."
I mean, ok, so if you only labelled one of them borderline (because it seems that almost every killer on your show has some mental health disorder which, you know, it seems like maybe there could lets say, HALF of them who were "healthy" so people will stop blaming people with mental health problems for anything horrible that happens in society*) I could somewhat deal with that (if he did indeed *act* as though he was borderline) because, yeah, I'll give you that anyone can be a killer, even a borderline. But the fact that it has come up two weeks in a row and used as a way to make sure everyone knows that this guy is super crazy and that borderlines are likely to carve you up into bits and eat your innards, well that makes me just a little bit pissy.
SO will you please stop kicking on people who are among the most feared and reviled in the mental health world (I mean, how appropriate is it that docs can refuse to treat us. What if you went in for a check up and the doc refused to treat you because they don't like people who have the flu? huh? Feels shitty, don't it.) So please pull your heads out of your asses and stop saying that every damn bad guy on your show is borderline. Because if you knew even a little itsy bit about it, you would know that we're far more likely to hurt ourselves then to hurt others. Oh and women have it more often then men.
Sincerley,
One seriously pissed off clown with borderline personality disorder.
*Did you know that in psychological tests done on rapists and pedophiles, doctors could find no difference at all between the psychological make-up of a 'healthy' person and a convicted sexual predator. Interesting, huh.
To my fellow BPD sufferers, a plea:
I want more people with BPD/ERD to stand up and talk about it. I'm sick of getting kicked around because of fear of the unknown. There are more of us who have been diagnosed borderline then there are diagnosed bipolar or schizophrenic! Those 2 conditions aren't nearly as scary or as picked on as borderline. I can't get you to do anything, but I just hope that I am not alone in bringing this stuff up. If you ever feel moved to talk about it, to a friend, on a blog, anywhere, and are scared just remember: I'll always be here for you. You have my unconditional support. We need to do this together.
They just gravitate to me, I guess
8 hours ago
2 comments:
Schizophrenia isn't picked on? Are you serious?
I totally empathise with your position on the misrepresentation of borderline personality disorder in the media. That empathy isn't theoretical: I understand exactly where you're coming from because I've been dealing with the exact same thing ever since I landed that diagnosis. It's shit. Borderline might be the trendy new kid on the block when it comes to stigma in entertainment, but schizophrenia sure isn't left alone.
Was just surfing for blogs about BPD & came across yours so I thought I'd leave a comment.
I haven't had the mental capacity to write about it myself, but I agree with your post that tv needs to stop further stigmatizing those of us with BPD. It was brought up in a recent episode of Law & Order SVU, the claim being that most all of the female teachers that molest their students have BPD. This info was needlessly throw in there cuz the show turned out to be about a kid that raped his teacher cuz he had a sex addiction.
BPD was also mentioned on the Dr. Phil show when a criminal profiler said that all these kids doing the school shootings are and I quote "borderline personality disordered and psychotic". Luckily Dr Phil at least took the time at the end of his show to counteract that statement by saying most people with BPD or schizophrenia will never kill anyone.
My blog is kind of depressing right now cuz I'm in a bad place, but feel free to pop over & read if you like.
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