tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post114542108067451320..comments2023-10-25T04:40:48.556-07:00Comments on Angry for a Reason: So why am I on disability again? OH right, misogynist asshats....lost clownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1147223619793321482006-05-09T18:13:00.000-07:002006-05-09T18:13:00.000-07:00You too.You too.lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1146196706403658562006-04-27T20:58:00.000-07:002006-04-27T20:58:00.000-07:00LC, absolutely incredible post. I cannot get over ...LC, absolutely incredible post. I cannot get over the fact that you named these men. So much is said in the decision to do that. Wow. I give you a standing ovation.manxomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15355672060834123823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145932147818120882006-04-24T19:29:00.000-07:002006-04-24T19:29:00.000-07:00Thank you rabfish, I hope that you are getting thr...Thank you rabfish, I hope that you are getting through it all ok, too. It's so hard and you always feel so alone. I had a breakdown this weekend and am starting meds tommorrow *fingers crossed* I hope they help (for the short term at least)lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145931601352268212006-04-24T19:20:00.000-07:002006-04-24T19:20:00.000-07:00I know nothing about Jess's history with Rori as I...I know nothing about Jess's history with Rori as I only recently started watching the show. I HATE Logan.lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145735297225006242006-04-22T12:48:00.000-07:002006-04-22T12:48:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.rabfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16784748066010530771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145675033245758472006-04-21T20:03:00.000-07:002006-04-21T20:03:00.000-07:00Um - I understand comments have been turned off bu...Um - I understand comments have been turned off but hopefully this will get to you. I just wanted you to know that I am learning from your blog and as hard as it must be for you to write some of this stuff I really hope you continue cause you are reaching people. <BR/><BR/><BR/>PS - I don't like Logan either - anybody is better than Jess though. <BR/><BR/>mgAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145654013101783012006-04-21T14:13:00.000-07:002006-04-21T14:13:00.000-07:00Exactly Edith.Exactly Edith.lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145594466088105932006-04-20T21:41:00.000-07:002006-04-20T21:41:00.000-07:00Incredibly incredible. Naming names is so importa...Incredibly incredible. Naming names is so important. Your descriptions of these men are important too.<BR/><BR/>Activists assault. Liberal activists assault. Radical anarcho-communist vegans with long hair assault. "Feminist" men assault. <BR/><BR/>The last is why I don't agree that men can call themselves feminists ("pro-feminist" or "feminist ally" is a whole other thing). When you no longer carry on you a weapon with which you can and will use to assault women, then I'll start talking about you being a "feminist." It's like a pacifist who carries a gun. You have a gun, fool. You're no pacifist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145553410608253822006-04-20T10:16:00.000-07:002006-04-20T10:16:00.000-07:00Big supportive hugs for you - way to go on the nam...Big supportive hugs for you - way to go on the naming :-) LxxxxLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08807325093106702912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145537958419135782006-04-20T05:59:00.000-07:002006-04-20T05:59:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing.Definitely angry for a reaso...Thank you for sharing.<BR/>Definitely angry for a reason.<BR/>Keep fighting the good fight.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145503977826951112006-04-19T20:32:00.000-07:002006-04-19T20:32:00.000-07:00"I'd rather be curled up in bed pretending that th..."I'd rather be curled up in bed pretending that the world didn't exist."<BR/><BR/>I know that feeling too <BR/><BR/>"My story is not an anamoly. It's all too common, but if we all keep doing what we have and keep speaking out and keep ripping apart the lies of the patriarchy maybe one day one girl will get to grow up and not know our pain"<BR/><BR/>and I sincerely hope that the second half of that statement becomes as true and the first.Micklehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13634363950848962653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145502703990847732006-04-19T20:11:00.000-07:002006-04-19T20:11:00.000-07:00When the damn breaks it sucks, and that's what I'v...<I>When the damn breaks it sucks, and that's what I've been dealing with for the past four years. </I><BR/><BR/>So so true. And, naming your abusers. I love that for a few obvious reasons. But I also love it because, if some girl meets one of them at a bar and thinks she has a crush on him...she might google him...and she might find out that he is an asshat. And that, is beautiful. Perhaps we should all do it. How great would that be?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145477987402998472006-04-19T13:19:00.000-07:002006-04-19T13:19:00.000-07:00river: I am so sorry to hear that. It took until ...river: I am so sorry to hear that. It took until my last assault for everything I was ignoring or blocking out (unconciously) for years. Decades for some of it. <BR/><BR/>When the damn breaks it sucks, and that's what I've been dealing with for the past four years. I ended up in hospital b/c I was no longer able to suppress these memories. The best thing is to be there and supportive when it happens (which it sounds like you are doing anyway. I wish my mom had been like that.)<BR/><BR/>We will make them listen.lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145477735563218182006-04-19T13:15:00.000-07:002006-04-19T13:15:00.000-07:00I'm sick of all the bullshit other women spew defe...I'm sick of all the bullshit other women spew defending these men. "I don't think we should use names because <I>I</I> have a different relationship with him."<BR/><BR/>Yeah good for you, he can't get around to raping everyone now can he? (But he sure will try)lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145471281862174472006-04-19T11:28:00.000-07:002006-04-19T11:28:00.000-07:00Thank you for this post. You're a very strong clo...Thank you for this post. You're a very strong clown.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145455904152826802006-04-19T07:11:00.000-07:002006-04-19T07:11:00.000-07:00love you, LC.We will always keep fighting.love you, LC.<BR/><BR/>We will always keep fighting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145452537186560572006-04-19T06:15:00.000-07:002006-04-19T06:15:00.000-07:00We will win, because we have to. My post for Blog ...We will win, because we have to. <BR/><BR/>My post for Blog Against Sexual violence Day is here: http://riverheart.livejournal.com/493103.html (warning: may trigger).<BR/><BR/>Both my daughter and I are survivors. I think my daughter has severe PTSD due to being attacked a second time. She has lost all memory of the first attack - ALL memory, including not remembering that she has felt the scars on her vagina from the first attack. The case is still in process, and it may have to proceed on evidence alone, without her testimony, because she cannot remember.<BR/><BR/>Good luck and good energy to you. The more of us who speak out as survivors, the stronger and the less ignorable we become.BotAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145432271199929442006-04-19T00:37:00.000-07:002006-04-19T00:37:00.000-07:00Thank you for writing this.I barely left my house ...Thank you for writing this.<BR/><BR/>I barely left my house for nearly a year, a few years back. It gets easier. Eventually.hexyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12189529529520498603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145427150191181672006-04-18T23:12:00.000-07:002006-04-18T23:12:00.000-07:00"We'll win because we're right."I wish that were t...<I>"We'll win because we're right."<BR/><BR/>I wish that were true, </I><BR/><BR/>We will. The sun may have supernovaed at that point, but we will. I just won't be around to see it.lost clownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02751161198550585778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145424949850414592006-04-18T22:35:00.000-07:002006-04-18T22:35:00.000-07:00We will win, no matter how much we have to raise t...We will win, no matter how much we have to raise the stakes.<BR/><BR/>I'm so glad you named them.spotted elephanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681544565260222585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145424292947870012006-04-18T22:24:00.000-07:002006-04-18T22:24:00.000-07:00"We'll win because we're right."I wish that were t..."We'll win because we're right."<BR/><BR/>I wish that were true, you do not know how much I wish that were true; but unless we make sure that people know that we are right and make them understand why this matters so much we will not win.Coathangrrrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08871110366959354660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20186784.post-1145424168987121842006-04-18T22:22:00.000-07:002006-04-18T22:22:00.000-07:00as always, completely amazing post. Thanks for mu...as always, completely amazing post. Thanks for mustering up the energy to participate. I know how it can get...but you totally rock so I am happy to be able to link to you.<BR/><BR/>And - GG & Baseball!!! We should totally talk entertainment. I didn't really watch tonight's episode (it was barely on in the background)...so don't tell me what happened!!! But I HATE Logan...he's such a prick. More on that soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com